I've been with DH for 10 years and he keeps saying he wants to have a child but putting it off. In a year of me asking it's gone from TTC in Dec, to Feb, to potentially April to 'we'll know when it's right.'
Our relationship has suffered not just because of this and he says the unhappiness is a reason he wants to wait - but I feel very much like this is caused by him prevaricating. Husband is also moody and hasn't worked for some time. We have a DS 2 who he looks after one day a week.
I am now 34 and feel like I am running out of time and not having a second child is hurting my career. I have said I plan to leave if this isn't decided and I do, but I will stay if there's a chance I won't get majority custody of our DS. Has anyone gone through this and has any resources? I feel desperate but it's so hard to arrange a legal consultation with my full time job and son, and he is always in the house.