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Getting out and staying out of EA relationship- major handhold needed

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IdrisElbasNextWife · 21/03/2021 19:50

Hi, so after years of ups and downs and break ups and makeups I have told DH I want out.

I’m having a massive wobble, it’s all just too hard. Thankfully, he is being his usual gaslighting, argumentative, name calling self so it is making it a bit easier.

I am launching between angry and determined, and sad and desperate about every 5 mins.

I am desperately in need of as many hand holds as possible. I’m giving up my life as I know it, my home I only just achieved last year and most of my friends.

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IdrisElbasNextWife · 21/03/2021 19:51

I’m also taking my Dc away from their daddy. That’s so hard

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something2say · 21/03/2021 19:57

Ah bless you!!

Can you start a journal on your laptop? Things that have happened, things you can remember, things that changed things. Then what you need to do, why you need to do it, what you need to watch out for.

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