DH’s searches on facebook

[Orangejuiceandtoast]

I was sitting next to DH and he was on Facebook. I was telling him to search up a page related to his hobby. When he went into his search engine, i noticed he had searched for a particular women who we know (but neither of us have her as a friend on Facebook). It turns out he has checked out her profile quite a number of times.

When I asked him about it, he says he checks to see if she has out up any new pictures?? Would this be okay to any of you? I have a feeling he fancies her as he has been mentioning her quite a bit recently (she works in the same field as us).

Yes DP was always searching for a mutual friend of ours that I always knew he fancied, it did piss me off.

He did go on to have an EA with her though so I knew my instincts about him fancying her was right

Well I think it's quite obvious he fancies her, why else would he by his own admission want to see new pictures of her?

I think this is one of those things you're better off not knowing but it's done now. I would feel jealous myself but also know that he hasn't don't anything wrong. Do you have any other suspicions?

I'd be feel hurt by that.

And you said?.....

If my DP said that I’d ask why he was so interested in her new photos and I’m sure we’d have finished by having a row.

Thank you everyone, I have had my suspicions for a few months now that he likes her and have thought there might be something going on.

I haven’t actually said much about it but I plan to, I just don’t know how to bring it up as we are currently ignoring each other.

I’m just not sure if this is the beginning if the end with everything else that has went on. If something isn’t going on with her, I think he definitely fancies her! I feel like 2nd best as he never ever likes my Facebook photos and although they aren’t friends on Facebook, I have a string suspicion if he was he would be liking her photos.

Well, it’s all contextual, isn’t it? There are situations in which it would be fine for a fella to search a girl on Facebook. BUT, in this case, it sounds like he is completely jerking you around. And you deserve better. So sorry, my love. Xxx