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New gf

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sohurtandalone · 19/03/2021 11:15

We have been broken up well over a year his choice but remained friends. Last few weeks not heard anything from him but today he said he has a new gf. I knew he did as had gone quiet. I did the I am so happy for you thing, he said the way he treated me he has learned from this and I have made him a better person. Well thanks for that glad she will benefit from it. I have never felt more alone in my life. Just want to curl up and cry but I have so much work today I feel like I can't escape from these feelings and I am drowning.

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sohurtandalone · 19/03/2021 13:07

No I'm by myself have had terrible luck since him been ghosted etc. I am just unlucky in love. Seem to be the girl before they meet the right girl x

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FabulousMeOhYes · 19/03/2021 13:28

@sohurtandalone

No I'm by myself have had terrible luck since him been ghosted etc. I am just unlucky in love. Seem to be the girl before they meet the right girl x
Nope, they’re just the guys you meet before you meet the right one.
sohurtandalone · 19/03/2021 15:31

@FabulousMeOhYes I hope so xx

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Sunflower1970 · 24/03/2021 08:04

We’ve all been here! I remember my first boyfriend splitting with me as he wanted to see ‘other people’ leaving me heartbroken. I cringe when I look back and think how long I was pining for a loser! But now your ex has a girlfriend draw a line under this and move on. Lockdown will soon be over, get your glad rags on and look for somebody worthy. As somebody else said, block this guy. Who cares whether he thinks you’re jealous or not? He’s not important anymore - you’re the important one. Just cut him out and you will start feeling better x

sohurtandalone · 24/03/2021 09:20

Thanks you @Sunflower1970 x

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Seaoftroubles · 24/03/2021 09:34

O. P, he is not a nice person and he doesn't care about you or your feelings. He has taken advantage of your kind nature to massage his ego whilst he moved on. No doubt every conversation post break up was about him. Listen to Eckhart's wise words, block him and take back your power.

sohurtandalone · 26/03/2021 15:58

@Seaoftroubles thank you I can see now I was just used till he found someone else x

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