Hey, right so I've been with a guy for almost 2 years. He is lovely, kind, very easy to get on with but over time I've noticed he's a bit too laid back.
He moved into my house last year on the condition he gets a job (he was made redundant) and he gets his divorce sorted. (She wanted it over)
He said yes without a doubt he will get those sorted.
Showed me a message of the quickie divorce company he was going to use as they are doing the 2 year separation which is now more than up and said it should be done in about 6 wks, fine, found himself a little job to tie him over. Sorted.
However just before Christmas I asked him how the divorce was going, he said oh it's not it's costing more than he thought and needs to save up for it!
Cut story short, I've given him until this Easter to get it sorted or we are done.
Few weeks back I've asked him what's the situ oh I'll call her at the weekend, Monday night he goes off upstairs in private to call his ex to finally get this sorted. Apparently now it's in her hands and she will put the application through. So it feels he's passed the responsibility onto her to sort it. I said it still needs to be sorted by Easter, the application to have gone in at least!
Yesterday I asked how the application is going, replied not sure I'll ring her at the weekend she's having issues with her mum in hospital! I've rolled my eyes up and the look on my face said it all.
Now don't get me wrong, I am a very caring, considerate person which has been taken for granted a lot of times, am I going to be the bitch if this bloody application hasn't gone in by Easter and I stick to my word and end it between us, despite the fact his ex couldn't get it done because of her family issues? He could have done this himself but it seems he doesn't really like responsibilities and all about the easy life.