I’ve got individual friends but me and my husband have no joint friends. We don’t have a friendship group. Does every married couple have a group they hang out with? I just see pictures of groups of friends going away for weekends and think that must be lovely. Does every married couple have that? I’d love it. I don’t know how to get it. I’ve tried but finding people who 1) are interested and haven’t already got their own tribe is hard 2) finding people who I get on with the woman and husband gets on with the bloke seems impossible. How do we get a friendship group? I tried through my kids school and for a couple of years we had one going with other parents but as the kids got older it all fell apart as they found other friends they preferred and it was always me making all of the running. When they would organise something we’d get left out so it wasn’t exactly reciprocal. I feel like me and my kids are missing out on a huge part of life and I feel like I’m letting them down by trying and failing. Any tips on how you made your tribe please?