I think you can be in a relationship with someone whose view points differs from yours. ( Excepting, racists, abusers, gas lighters, etc, etc ).
As long as you respect each other, respect each other’s right to have an alternative point of view, and to always try to finish a discussion or debate with an agreement to disagree.
Some great advice I received many years ago, was, ‘ We have two ears and one mouth for a reason ‘ and ‘ Although we may love the sound of our own voice, to others, we sound like a broken record ‘
As a man, I empathised and supported the vigil. With a serving policeman in custody being accused of murdering Sarah E ( God rest her soul ), it was not a good look for the police being physical with some of the women protesters.
I think under the circumstances, the majority of policing should have been done by female officers.
My female partner disagreed, saying they were breaking the law with the potential to spread the virus and possibly infecting and killing other people.
She was right. Technically and legally. But in a larger sense, shouldn’t women be able to feel safe walking home, whatever the time, shouldn’t people feel equal have have equal equity in society whatever the colour of their skin.......
Laws should be upheld, but they can and sometimes, should be changed. Equally, injustice and perceptions of injustice should change, too.
As someone up thread has said, if you are going to discuss or debate politics or religion, it has to be mutually respectful and nuanced.
I think your unhappiness has less to do with your opposing view points and more to do with your incompatible personalities......