I had plans this evening to spend a few hours at my fathers house (he’s in my bubble) and for a little break from my 2dc.
My Dh works away a lot and often works over weekends so it’s tough looking after 2 dc under 4years old alone.
This morning my dd who is 3yrs was being stroppy which is a phase she’s going through at the moment.
My dh was getting wound up as she wouldn’t get dressed and he said “I can’t be doing with her, you best take her out for the day, out of my sight, and I’ll have her from 3pm when you have to leave for your fathers.”
This annoyed me as I felt I was being dictated to. But I did as he asked and entertained the children for the remainder of the morning and into the afternoon until it was time for me to leave. He remained in bed, sleeping the whole time.
I feel like this maybe the turning point for our relationship and I need to leave for my sanity.
Please does any one have any advice?
Thank you