Holiday upset

[ihatecoconut]

Just coming for a rant really!

I've always wanted to go to a certain place on holiday, dream destination for a long city break if you like - just never got round to it because it's a more expensive that the normal breaks we go on.

DP knows this is my top of the list break and we decided after lockdown it is where we would next go.

Today he tells me him & his friends are going there later this year (if covid allows) I'm so fuming and upset!!
There's plenty of other places to go!

He says we can still go, but what's the point when he's been there, seen it and done it all couple of months prior!!!

Selfish prick.

Yes I could do with the girls but I've always imagined it with him because it's a romantic kind of place.

Aibu to be upset about this?

YANBU!!!!!

I'd be upset about this too. He's definitely being a selfish prick!

You aren’t - but is it his friends that came up with it rather than him?! Could he explain to them they need to pick somewhere else to keep their mate out of the divorcee courts??

I'd be livid. He should have declined straight away.

Definitely not ok. Was he not even apologetic? I’d bring it up daily - ‘since I am never getting my dream holiday wirh uou, I had better think of things I can do with my girls.’ ‘I’d like to.. no I better not tell you, you will just go with your mates and I’ll miss out.’
Etc etc. Because it’s just so uncaring! There’s no way my dh wouldn’t know all the time that it upset me.