What can I do about this

[Givemeabreak88]

I don’t know if anyone will remember but I posted the other day about my sister reporting me to ss (malicious) and because of that we are NC. I haven’t seen or spoken to her in a year. Well today she turned up at my door step! I didn’t answer the door and I don’t if she knew I was in or not. What can I do about this? I don’t want any contact with her ever again and I can’t believe she turned up at my door? Any advice please

Report her to the police for harassment? See if they can give you a restraining order (or whatever the uk equivalent is) against her.

One action in a year doesn't constitute harassment.

Maybe she wanted to apologise in person?
If she's not being verbally aggressive, hammering on the door, shouting through the letter box then I doubt the Police would do anything.
Keep ignoring her and hope she gives up.

@Kfdbhydcjrsx

One action in a year doesn't constitute harassment.

She called social services on op and then turned up on her doorstep afterwards, that's two actions. And that's after op has clearly been no contact for a while. Presumably with multiple good reasons.

I was worried the police wouldnt do anything ☹️ As no she wasn’t shouting or banging. I have nothing to say to her I don’t care if she apologises I would never forgive her. I’m now worried she’s going to turn up again or wait to catch me after the school run etc

Are you in contact with any other family? Could you ask them to pass on that you will report it to the police if she comes again?

I think you'd have a better chance of stating 'harrassment' if you told her not to contact you and then she did anyway.

I would speak to the police anyway. Is it 101 or is that the health number, I can never remember...but give them a ring and let them know what's happening.

Someone who you have taken steps to escape who reports you to social services out of the blue and then turns up at your house is... incidious. They clearly dont have good intentions.

Though, how do you know she was the one who reported you?

Yes that would be a good idea, I will tell my dad to tell her not to contact me again.

She admitted the report

@Givemeabreak88

She admitted the report

What reasons did she give?

She’s never really given a reason tbh. I cut contact with her as soon as I found out. We haven’t spoken since she admitted it.

Ah I getcha. So that was some time back and now she has turned up again?

Hmm...very odd.

Maybe she wants to build bridges again then.
I think I'd go with pps suggestion to tell a relative you dont want to see her and will report her for harassment if she continues to try to contact you.

What did she report you to social services for?

It sounds like she may want to build bridges.

Yeh it was about 3 years ago, I didn’t find out straight away as she denied it for a long time (tried to blame several other people first) but eventually it came to light.

You need to report this as harassment and explain why you stopped speaking to her and why you don't want her near you.

Have you made it clear to her that you don't want contact? It may be worth sending a final letter - keep it factual along the lines of DSis, I am aware that you attended my property at XX on XX/XX/XXXX. I am writing to advise you that I do not wish you to attempt any further contact with me. Further attempts to do so will be reported to police as harassment and I retain the right to seek appropriate civil and/or criminal remedy for trespass and harassment in the future. Kind regards XX. Keep a copy, send one signed delivery. This makes your position absolutely clear and gives you something to follow up if she does appear again.

You need a window sticker :
No trespassers
No cold callers
No fucking bitches

Well we both blocked each other after she admitted so I thought that was pretty clear but clearly not! I’ve completely blocked her number from contacting me. Having had no contact for a year I would have assumed she would know why but we live 10 minutes apart which is the annoying thing so easy to turn up.