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Trust broken

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Trustisamust · 07/03/2021 23:56

I'm a very black and white person I'll admit; always have been.

My question is once the trust has gone in a relationship is it really over?

For me trust is an absolute non-negotiable. Not just through lying necessarily, but through omission.

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Puzzledandpissedoff · 03/04/2021 19:36

He got into debt when he was in his last relationship prior to me - she was earning well herself but she took the piss basically and he fell for it

Please be very careful with this; as with so many men it makes it all "someone else's fault" and it may well not be the whole truth

category12 · 03/04/2021 19:53

He got into debt when he was in his last relationship prior to me - she was earning well herself but she took the piss basically and he fell for it

Yeah right. Hmm Smells like bullshit.

Who forced him into debt this time? I guess it must be you in that role.

I would buy on your own and keep your finances separate.

You may not find this a dealbreaker for the relationship, but you'd be very foolish to entangle your finances further with him.

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