I have posted about this particular friend before being a bit weird towards me this summer.
Well since the summer, she has done various things like organise days out and not invite me along, arrange a meal for her birthday and chose Indian as I am the only one who doesn't like Indian (yes I know its her right to pick her favourite meal for her birthday) but it was done with the intent of exclusion.
My 'ex' friend in the past has been clinically depressed and a self-harmer and basically if anyone stands up to her tactless comments (which she feels she can say without anyone confronting her due to her fragile state) she turns the tables round and tells everyone that you have been nasty to her and you are the reason for her wanting to kill herself.
Well about a month ago, I arrange a haloween party for my kids and 4 other kids plus mums (this Sunday), I didn't invite her because at that time she was still being funny with me and I thought stuff her. Well she has just found out about it and phoned me up and given me a ear full saying how nasty I am and how I talk about her to others and how I am making her ill again (all lies).
She ended the conversation by saying I was nasty and twisted before hanging up. Well quite frankly I'm better off without her, but it does bother me what she is saying to others she is very convincing and manipulative.
I don't know why I have posted this, just wanted to get it off my chest, I'm pleased we are no longer friends as I don't need this in my life, however she frightens me a little, I know I'm being silly, but I don't trust her next move.
Please don't think I am unsympathetic to her depression, I have supported her the best I could until she turned on me, and then I stood up to myself.