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need advice with this relationship???

4 replies

kisha4567 · 05/03/2021 23:31

I need advice should I start a relationship with a guy who friend zoned me? Saturday he had confessed how he found me attractive and he cared about me. First time we met was back in 2019 Jan and three months we was seeing each other I told him that i was gaining feelings for him but then just wanted to be friends. After that we lost contacted and only last year May we reconnected and started seeing each other again but now it feels diferent he is more loving towards me. I am so confused and just need advice.

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meetmeinarizona · 05/03/2021 23:55

Don't even waste your time. Just leave him.

Lottieeshborn · 06/03/2021 00:39

Talk to him maybe? Ask what he's wanting from this..... a FWB or an actual partner? Wouldn't like be so much easier if we had a magic ball and could see what other people are thinking!
But yea..... communicate, or end it now if he seems like a bit of a f@ck boy!

seensome · 06/03/2021 01:19

Be straight with him and tell him that you're wanting a relationship but be prepared that worst case he still may not want the same but at least you'll know where you stand so you don't need to waste anymore time on him.
If he does then great, you can build and grow on the relationship you have but you want a yes or no from him take any maybes as a no.

Trickyboy · 06/03/2021 08:34

What a silly question to ask in MN. ! Is he practically perfect in every way ? Then still not good enough . No one should have a relationship with someone if the opposite sex unless you can GUARANTEE from the outset that they will be Kind, supportive &!emotionally mature. Any man that you consider spending time with must of course be single with no children yet be experts in the care of other peoples children . He must also be a supreme domestic god and a good earner.. then and only then should you consider him as a potential partner .

Alternatively..

You could give it a go and see how you get on.

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