Need some advice??

[kisha4567]

I need advice should I start a relationship with a guy who friend zoned me? Saturday he had confessed how he found me attractive and he cared about me. First time we met was back in 2019 Jan and three months we was seeing each other I told him that i was gaining feelings for him but then just wanted to be friends. After that we lost contacted and only last year May we reconnected and started seeing each other again but now it feels diferent he is more loving towards me. I am so confused and just need advice.

Just take it slowly. How old are you both?

He is 38 and im 34

Just ask him if this is still just a friendship or has the potential to become more. Say you don't want to invest in something that's a dead end as far as romance goes

Well, he's expressed attraction, so say "do you want to go on a date?"

I'd be wary he wanted fwb.

Ask him if he wants to turn the friendship into a relationship. You've known him long enough that it is ok to ask, now that he has expressed interest.

If he umms and ahs and looks for the door then you'll know he was just setting you up for a using.