I feel I am always posting so I'm sorry if I am repetitive.
Last year I fled with my kids to a refuge. We returned to our home and my former partner is gone.
He has access to the kids I deliver them so that he doesn't come to my place.
It's been very up and down, he tries to cancel them at short notice sometimes and he can be either polite and civil or angry with me.
He has a new partner.
He recently heard that I have been seeing someone and since then he's been behaving less civil towards me.
He ran up debts in our names and hid them so I've been trying to sort out payments etc it's in the thousands.
Tonight he turned very angry because I asked about sorting out the finances and it blew up from there.
Since then I've had a relative of his that has been supportive throughout suddenly send some very nasty messages to me accusing me of being a liar.
I've never lied about any of this the truth Is bad enough.
He wasn't physically violent he always stopped himself but was building up the momentum when we left.
Tonight he also started shouting out the most bizarre lies about me I was caught off guard
I don't know what to do.
This can't carry on and I'm totally at a loss my head is spinning and now I'm realising he's probably telling a lot of these lies to people and making me out to be in the wrong.
I was doing really well until this it's knocked me right back