Hi all,
So I have a 9 year old boy with a idiot. Met someone else when my boy was 4. Was never anything official just as and when we both felt like it which was near enough every weekend. We ended up getting serious 2 and half years ago. But he never moved in with me because his dad had a stroke and he cares for him. We now have a 6 month old boy. I knew he would never move in with me because he cares for his dad. His dad also has 2 dogs that he needs to walk etc. He spends every second of every day with his dad and the dogs driving round in there car. He comes and stays at my house twice a week. Arriving at 9pm at night (when our baby is asleep), he arrives at this time as he can’t leave the dogs without a walk. Then he stays in bed until 2pm the next day because he can’t sleep on a night. So doesn't really spend time with any of us. I’ve ended the relationship with him a few days ago because I am sick of doing everything on my own I feel like a complete mug! I know he had to look after his dad but I thought he would at least come with his dad during the day. I’ve explained this to him, and he says he can’t come through the day because it means leaving the dogs in the car and they bark constantly!
I no he has to care for his dad but I feel like me and my boys are coming last even to the dogs!!!! I don’t no if I’m been silly but all my friends and family are telling me to get rid of him. I love him, but I no me and my boys deserve better.