I have been with OH for 10 years its my 28th birthday next week. OH has always wanted things his own way and I was happy to be led for the first few years of the relationship. My career has taken off and I don't like being ordered about I want a 50/50 partnership. We are having real problems with communication and passive aggressiveness. My OH outright refuses to do ANY shopping, I have to pester him to do basic chores he says I want him to do everything. For example I might ask him to pass me the charger from upstairs. He's already upstairs and I just want him to chuck it down or when the tv is about to go on standby he won't get up and click the remote, I always have to do it.
I want to save our relationship we have a DD who is 7 years old but I really can't stand him 60 percent of the time and the feeling is mutual.