Really struggling with it all..

[Gem8701]

Hi all,

I am in a bit of a shit place atm. Me an OH split up last year after 5 years together. I started seeing someone else, we still live together. I have been looking to move out but I don't know if i can split the family up, we have a 3 yr old LG. Oh is a great dad and a great person the only reason we split up is because there was no affecrion, no kisses cuddles and we didnt have sex for 2 years ( althought its past that now).

I guess now i am seeing someone its the right time to move on, its just so hard and I feel stuck between a hard place and a rock. New guy is great, and I really feel we have something special but I was with OH for 5 year and not sure i can leave.

not sure i can leave

Do you want to stay though? Is your current situation what you want?

Not really @SoupDragon

I guess it just hard to walk away from 5 years .

Yes, it might be hard but you can't live that way.

As for splitting the family up - it is better to have 2 happy families than one miserable one.

@SoupDragon I am leaving - next weekend i am moving into my own place

[quote Gem8701]@SoupDragon I am leaving - next weekend i am moving into my own place[/quote]
Congratulations, am sure you will all do fine.