Should i leave or am i being oversensitive

[Sarahkkx]

Writing with so much hurt but me and dh have been having few disagreements which i feel is due to him working to much and me not being able to deal with it emotionally whilst we got little kids

Anyways today sat down to speak and tried to sort the issues. Something he said to really has hurt me which ive then walked off to be alone.
I told him we either learn to be effective communicaters or this relationship will go down the hill.. He say this comment 'i dont care if you leave, il get a girl' wtf i never say such things even if im upset or angry with my other half. Even if we didnt work out thinking of being with someone else would be out my mind right now and i wouldn't say such things to him cause i love him dearly. Hes also putting it on me how else is he suppose to feel when i nag at him

Do you feel like he was just angry and im being overly sensitive by his comment
Advice :(

He's told you that you are totally expendable. Why do you doubt that that would be a hugely hurtful thing to say?

My advice? Trust your feelings. If you feel like being near him, be near him. Your first response was to walk away, so you know how to respond when you don't want to be near him.

I found it hurtful cause he knows there were trust issues before and now hes saying this to make me test my sanity @Eckhart

Decent people who love you don't try to test your sanity, make you feel disposable or say you're replaceable.

Raise the bar and move on from this dickhead, life's too short to be with someone you have to teach to be a nice person. Even if you have kids with them.

Decent people who love you don't try to test your sanity, make you feel disposable or say you're replaceable

Yes, this. He's blown it.

@Sarahkkx

I found it hurtful cause he knows there were trust issues before and now hes saying this to make me test my sanity *@Eckhart*

I didn't say 'why did you find it hurtful', I was meaning 'Yes, of course it's hurtful.'

Thats how i felt like im 'replaceable' when all i want is to feel loved and appreciated. We have one kid 4 years together

I found it hurtful cause he knows there were trust issues before

What does this mean? Has he cheated on you previously? Or was it a prior relationship?

You're not replaceable, @Sarahkkx.

But anybody who tells you that you are, is.