Advice please girls (and I really should know better, I'm 50 for god's sake!) Having come out the other side of a divorce unscathed and ready for a man in my life,I
met a man for the first time last night, after a couple of weeks of lovely emails and a long and interesting phone conversation.
He was as lovely in person as he was over email/phone and I think the evening went well APART from the fact that I drank too much (had a couple before I even met him to calm my nerves) and was definitely less sober than I would have liked. I don't think I made a prat of myself but he did email me when I got home to ask if I'd managed to get back safely without tripping over! (he asked in a very gentlemanly way whether I minded if he asked if I was ever so slightly tipsy!).
Aaargh - I'm mortified. Should I apologise to him (by email of course) or just not refer to it? We had so much in common and I would like to see him again, have I blown it? And on that note, is it OK to let a guy know you had a nice time after a first meeting and suggest meeting up again? I'm so out of practice, I've forgotten the rules! Hence knocking back too much vino to feel less nervous. I don't have any intention of getting physically involved with anyone for a long while though - it's friendship first and see what happens.
thanks I'm agony this morning!