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Best ways to forget someone

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Claire926 · 27/02/2021 15:46

I am moving on from someone because it is not going to happen. I rejoined Bumble and have had lots of interest. I also went for a walk with a male friend earlier who I know is interested. The problem is my mind drifts back to the original guy. I know I shouldn't think about him because he can't give me what I deserve. I just want the pain to go away and move on.

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Claire926 · 28/02/2021 18:05

@Eckhart You are right, I should not be so anxious about the future. When the time comes I will have moved on and be too busy to see him. I suppose it will take time to build up my self-esteem and I should be patient.

You made a good point, I need to stop making the focus about him. Thank you for your motivational words. I don't want to be that person who has no self respect and no man wants to date a woman who has insecurities. One day I will get there, you are very wise. Thanks for listening and giving me good tips.

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corlan · 28/02/2021 18:14

My granny used to say - the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.Wink

Claire926 · 28/02/2021 18:18

@Corlan I have heard that before! It made me smile when you wrote that!

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