Long time poster , but name changed .
My husband and I have been married for 3 years . We have a baby, and have been together just over 8 years in total.
We own a house , and life was going great.
Since having a baby things have changed but not in a way of typical relationship stress / strains that you’d expect when your life has changed & priorities change. He’s changed but makes out it’s me who’s the problem. I’ve tried numerous times to talk to him but I’m always made to feel like the bad guy . All life stresses are on me, I’m tired and just don’t know what to do. I feel like there’s no spark there anymore , we are basically just living together. He’s told me if I need some time away then that’s ok and to go and stop with a friend but I have our DC to think about, I can’t just pack up our things and go whereas he could easily go elsewhere but he won’t . I find myself thinking I’d rather found out he’s had an affair and I can use that as a get out clause so I don’t feel like the bad guy.
I’m not sure what the point of this post is, maybe someone has been there too, or any advise . Will it get better ? Will things go back to how they were in a kind of fashion or will things just get worse ?
Sorry if this is a bit scatty. I’m a bit confused