my dp was, or should i say, still is, addicted to dating sites, chat rooms etc when we met (not thru any online thing) he promised he wudnt go on them again. he broke that promise.
on new years eve, while we was out having a drink, he was texting a girl off 1 of these sites asking for a 3some and sending her pics of himself 'down there'
i confronted him about this and he said he was texting her,going on these sites etc, to escape reality, that he was feeling depressed, and promised not to do it again.
fast forward a couple of months later, i had a hunch that he was still going on this certain site, cybering with women, so i went on, posing as someone else, and he started cybering with me. yet again i confronted him and yet again he gave the same reason and promised not to do it again.
for a while, he has been texting this woman, which, usually i wouldnt mind, but, he deletes the texts he sends her and the ones she sends him. i mean wtf?
i asked him if there was anything going on and he said no. so i said if there wasnt why do you need to hide the texts? he just said 'because i can'
a few weeks ago i was using his works laptop and saw some emails from a dating site, so me being nosey i opened the email and saw that he had signed up to it and was sending and recievin messages. i logged onto the dating site and his profile said, single looking for fun with females and female couples. he said when i asked him about it that he just did it for a laugh!
tonight he has texted the above mentioned woman and yet again deleted the texts.
another thing now, i was trying to sort out our finances has dp has been made redundant. on his bank statement, to my horror, was nearly 1000quid gone onto a gamblimg site. he told me that he had been on but only bet around 100 and won back 80.
i really am at my wits end with him. we havent had sex for nearly 6months because he doesnt want to and it just makes me feel really crap about myself.
sorry for going on and posting this