Abusive partner

[Canthandlethis]

NC. I’m sorry if this is a mess I just need to get it out. I have no one.

DP has form for exploding and getting in my face, following me around and trying to kick me out. When he does it’s relentless.
Today he tried to break up with me, and I’m so exhausted with this abuse that I let him. Which was wrong in his eyes. He exploded that I should’ve begged for him.

I’ve had hours of relentless questions, abuse, threats to me and my pets, squaring up. No matter how much I asked him to just leave me alone. He almost pushed me down the stairs and at one point he grabbed my wrist and dragged me out of bed.

I’m just crying and crying. How did I end up here

Call the police op.

He is threatening you and your animals.
And has attacked you.

Can you get somewhere safe and call them? Maybe go outside for a walk?

What is your house situation? Owned? Who's name is on it?

His house, his name. God I’m so stupid. I did go out twice during these hours of abuse but it’s just so cold and with Covid there’s nowhere to go

Do you have any family you can stay with op?

You are seriously risking your life by staying.
How are things money wise? Would you be able to rent a place yourself? Or even look for a flat share?

I think you would be wise to report this to the police op, even if its first thing in the morning, just to get it on record.

You aren't stupid, you're just caught in a nasty mans web.

Call the police to report his abuse, then gather your things, walk out the door and never look back.

OP you are in serious danger so you need to contact the Police and get him arrested.
That will buy you time to get your pets to an animal rescue shelter , then quickly pack your bags and just go.
Your local Womens Aid should help you.
Good luck.

Call the police.

Hope you are ok today op?
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The police and RSPCA can work with a local charity to foster your pets until you get on your feet.

If you speak to the council, they can put you on the list for a property. They'll even help you with the deposit and first month's rent if you can find something private.

This isn't your fault.