Maybe I'm just not that into him?

[Wagamas]

Just that really. Me and dp have recently had a newborn together. The sex stopped during pregnacy, on my behalf. I honestly was convinced I didnt like it anymore but I find when I have me time I end up thinking of my first love ....

We still hug, that's about it really. The odd peck here and there. Everyone tells me it's the baby hormones messing with my head and my sex drive will miraculously make a return. But what if it isnt? What if isnt that I'm unhappy, or the hormones, what if it's just that I'm not into my dp anymore?

Yesterday during valentines I sat alone contemplating why something feels like it's so very off and missing from our relationship. It makes me feel sad.

Did you fancy him before the pregnancy? Were things good between you? Are you interested in sex with other people, or not interested in sex at all?

It's probably nature's way of making sure you don't get pregnant again too soon.

It's probably best not to make any big decisions too quickly after having a baby and see how you feel in a few months.

Are you breastfeeding?

Let him go before his self esteem is in tatters.

This is sad but it does sound like you no longer fancy him. Don't stay with someone you don't fancy.

“Did you fancy him before the pregnancy? Were things good between you? Are you interested in sex with other people, or not interested in sex at all?

It's probably nature's way of making sure you don't get pregnant again too soon.

It's probably best not to make any big decisions too quickly after having a baby and see how you feel in a few months.”

This.