Ok, long shot but trying to reach out. My h is not a bad person, nor abusive in a knowing sense. He has no empathy, I’m totally emphatic, doesn’t like hugs - took a while, doesn’t engage in anyway like a person who loves someone does.
I need affection, hugs, discussion and fun. I have none of these in my 12 yr marriage despite gentle and obvious requests
I have no love, care or any consideration- his friends come first, yet I stay for our son.
Now I don’t want to stay but have no idea how to end it with someone who is clueless, inconsiderate but not nasty.
So stuck