I need some help, I’m not sure whether I’m over reacting or whether this is not ok.
My DP is a lovely kind person and would be horrified if he thought he had hurt me.
I have a background of childhood sexual abuse which he is aware of but we have never discussed in any detail.
I have a low sex drive and we do not dtd very often. The other day he had wanted to and I had said I was too tired but would look forward to it another night. He repeatedly kept asking me and saying just give me a cuddle, just come here he also tried to physically pull me towards him. I kept saying no, I’m too tired albeit in a laughing kind of way.
Eventually to shut him up and went to give him a cuddle and just lay there while he made some moves. He then said we didn’t have to but by that point I felt like I just needed to get it over with, I had already said lots of times before I didn’t want to and he had persisted.
Am I over reacting? Should I just have continued to say no or was this unacceptable of him?