Yesterday I calmly asked my boyfriend of 1 year if he says he is so smart why not get a job aa he could do anything he wanted. He decided to call my brother in law greedy for working all week to support his family because my boyfriend doesn't want to work long hours.
He said there's no point in working to come home tired and moody and to save up for nothing. He said my dad works all week and might save up and not spend it on anything. Said what's the point in that.
Then he started bringing up bills that I pay for and said I need to get rid of netflix even though I can afford it and my kids use it alot! He said he can't believe I spent 50 pound on my teenage sons trainers last year for his birthday when they didn't fit but I said they fit his brother and I got his big brother a bigger size. But then he said well what if you didn't have the younger brother? That I would of had to sell them cheaper.
Oh he went on and on!
I know it's daft to stay but I split up with him before
before treating me like crap and realised I loved him and don't want to regret it again.