I have been in a relationship with bf for over 2 years. Our sex life has never been great and unless I start he's not really interested. We've spoken about it many times and he says that it's always been an issue for him with previous partners.
Now here's the thing. I took a sneaky peak at his phone when he was sleeping. I'd been feeling uncomfortable lately as he keeps on talking about the wife of one of his friends'. I've met the couple and there does seem to be a fondness between them, which is okay. But recently her name has cropped up in conversations a little too much.
But and here's the big but, it wasn't her that I needed to worry about. On their exchange of messages from a 3 years ago he told her that he was splitting up with his ex girlfriend because he'd cheated on her with a guy. I was gobsmacked to say the least.
So my question to you lovely people is whether it's possible to have a 'normal' relationship with a bisexual man. And how I get over the hurt of him not telling me the truth about him at the start of our relationship. Will he be able to maintain a straight relationship or will he always be looking for the opportunity to sleep with men. Should I tell him that I looked at his phone?
Sorry for all of the questions but I'm so confused. Please be nice to me as I really don't know where to turn. Thank you x