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Partner getting a tongue piercing

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lovecraftcounty · 07/02/2021 20:07

So my DP and I are thinking about one or both of us getting a tongue piercing (when lockdown lifts ofc)I know the ermm Hmm benefits of one downstairs.
But my worry is what about french kissing with one?people with experience please tell me does it ruin a kiss or get in the way?
I have looked them up but no answer to this specific question.

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lovecraftcounty · 07/02/2021 22:05

I think I will talk to my partner about this as it not as simple as I thought.
Thank you all

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Kittykat93 · 07/02/2021 22:12

Didn't feel any different to me or me to him really. And you're the one who said you're getting it done for that reason...that's why people are bringing up oral.

Squidgling · 07/02/2021 22:21

I don't have a tongue piercing myself but have in the past kissed people with them and received oral. I didn't find it any different to be honest. Sorry!

Ruddyfedup · 07/02/2021 23:52

Mine are normal centre placing for a tongue piercing, just one behind the other. Kissing, wouldnt say they get in the way or add anything special or noticeable to it. I imagine my Dp would be able to tell the difference if i had them in or not, same for if i gave him a blowjob but again, i dont think it adds anything spectacular or mind blowing. I take them out and end up re-piercing them every 6months-ish, they're in for me more than anything, i like having two, its a bit different and ive only met one other person with them.

Sn0tnose · 08/02/2021 00:41

My ex had one and I didn’t really notice a difference, although his tongue split definitely made a difference! DH says he most definitely noticed a difference when I took mine out for a while.

No difference at all in kissing. You feel more difference with a lip piercing. My dentist is not over the moon about oral piercings but I am incredibly careful about not playing with it. Probably hurt the least out of all of mine.

Ultimateblends · 08/02/2021 10:01

I think you've had plenty of information now op, and the thread has made me laugh.
I was quite pleased when others came along to say that they felt no difference in oral or kissing. This was definitely my experience. I remember being about 17 when I had mine done, and couldn't wait for it to heal to 'try it out'
Very disappointing. It made no difference to anything.

If anything get it done just for you, if it does make a difference, bonus. If not, you've still got a piercing you like!

lovecraftcounty · 09/02/2021 21:41

Haha thank you @Ultimateblends
I have lots to think about!

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namechangealerttt · 09/02/2021 22:36

I recently got a nipple pierced (my first piercing since a standard pair of ear piercing when I was a little girl). They said nipple was one of the worst, and when I asked about VCH, I was told if I can handle the nipple, VCH is so easy in comparison, so don't rule it out.

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