20 years married today mockery of a marriage, DH puts a wedding photo on social media and he's a hero!!!

[Overseasmom100]

Due to his infidelity, selfishness and racking up debt all spent on himself our marriage is a joke (ducks being put in a row) has been for 4 years. Oh and he knows...he knows how much U duslikr hum but again in denial and pretends it's not all happening as can not abide to admit whats in front of his face. Ive seen the light BUT wow everyone on the outside thinks what a great guy he is. He posts a wedding photo today and boy the adolation for him... ah that's so cute...ah how lovely. What a joke!!!! Sorry just sounding off

Untag yourself from the wedding photo. Are you staying in this sad marriage?

It does sound sickening to see people fawning all over the man that made your marriage the mess that its in. Sadly it's what a lot of arse hole types do, show a nice side to the world so everyone thinks they're great while treating their spouses like shit and making them miserable.

Sadly I have no advice but I do feel for you.

Social media is not real, please don't think Facebook likes equate to actual concern and sincere sentiment - and if that's too sappy, just picture the timeline in two months time with the single status on

You'll get through it, but spend your energy on you and your future, he's not part of it.

Im just sounding off really. The photo to me is just a lie, not real of us now. My birthday today aswell. Im miserable...I dont even like talking to him...he's ruined what we had...never really even gone out of his way to put things right. I need to get my DS settled in college this year then boot him out.

Happy birthday, lovely

This is the last birthday, the last anniversary you'll do this.
What are you going to do next year?

Happy birthday, may those ducks swim into the row of your choosing !

It's been mentioned elsewhere that those who are most loved-up on social media are the one's whose marriage is most on the rocks. Despite them posting 'so cute' responses, some of them may now be waiting for the split!

Happy Birthday

And congratulations on seeing the light.
It sounds like youv'e had 4 years of detesting him, it's a shame he didn't notice enough to do anything about it.

Keep your plan going, he's a twat and deserves his consequenses no matter how late.

@Overseasmom100
Hi Op.
Glad you have finally seen the light about what a shit husband you have really got.!
And a shit marriage !

Rember Social media Facebook etc All that showy superficial stuff of happy marriages Photos stuff is all Just a elaborate Facade !

Its like those Celebrities Couples on Hello Mags etc before !
Rember most of them famous people who appeared on that type of mag, marriages/relantships were doomed /troubled end ended up divorced /split up a few years later !
That mag was notorious for having that kind of effect /kiss of death on love relantships !

Are you my SIL?

Her arsehole wanker H posts this crap. Even though he treats her horribly, cheats, financially abuses her and is just the biggest twat I've ever met.

We press Like and say awwwwww to the picture, and wish he was gone. We all know.

Tell him the next time he posts that crap, you'll also publically list his infidelities etc for everyone's reaction.