My relationship ended last year,it ended under the strain of a long distance relationship travel & work and it ended down to me calling it I was having a very difficult week.
Moving on to December 20 and January 21,I laid down terms of reference how I wanted to not see her or have contact but every so often she will text me but this is only weekdays and not weekends nor will she call me to talk.
I have told her I don’t feel we are friends I don’t see us going to pub lunches or Cosmo meets and I’m not part of her social circle so why bother me.
Looking back the relationship wasn’t perfect but we complemented each other as we were both very active and travelled together and had very similar interests.
She very soon after us parting met someone and has moved in with her I always had suspicions there was another but felt I couldn’t ask or be justified in asking without then being called Controlling.
The truth is when someone who is an ex wants to remain friends but you want that time without feeling intruded upon would you remain friends or let it go to the past.
I still feel hurt that she met someone so soon and moved in but after nearly 2years together I lived out of bags.
We were both the same age and her new gf is 35 not that age has anything to do with it.