Is it best to go no contact now for my ex to reconsider his feelings?

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Ex-boyfriend broke up with me a few months ago. I stupidly kept in contact with him afterwards and we caught up a week or so later. Been getting mixed signals from him ever since. I asked if we could catch up recently and he was sort of interested but half not. I told him today that I think our reasons for catching up seem different (as I obviously still like him) and he's probably doing it for friendly reasons. He agreed and said it's sensible to not catch up for now but we can revisit it anytime. Does this sort of sound like he just wants to wait till his feelings possibly change?

You need to confront the fact that he doesn't want to be with you anymore. He broke up with you, and doesn't want to meet up because he knows you want to get back together and he does not.

He's not playing some kind of game, he's not going to come around. You need to move on.

OP he sees you as an option. So do not make him a priority for you.

Go NC but not to get him back. Go NC to work on yourself, focus on being happy again without him in the background, causing you stress and distracting you from going forward.

You're looking to get back together again, he probably is eyeing you up for a quick shag with no intention of getting back with you. Grow up and move on