First time asking for real help here so be gentle!
My problem is this. Last year my dh who comes from another country and is often very homesick formed a very close internet relationship with a woman from his home town.He ended up meeting up with her and I was pretty unhappy about it because it got to the stage where he ruined a family holiday by constantly texting her all day long - massive rows happened between us. i know that nothing physical went on between them(not least because they had no opportunity) but I do feel that they were pretty much falling in love. Dh says that everything was purely platonic and he is desperate for conversation about his country's politics etc which she can provide and I cant. things died down but recently he has seen her again when visiting his sick father. (She is a doctor and he wanted her advice.) I have told dh how uncomfortable this makes me but he says I am being crazy and paranoid and denying him of a wonderful friend. (just a friend who happens to be prettier, younger, cleverer and better at his language than me!). I have to trust my dh but how the hell do i accept this and stop it eating away inside? I hate that I'm turning into a paranoid snoop