I have been no contact with my ex for 4 months. He is basically a waste of space, was emotionally abusive and had addictions to drugs and alcohol throughout our relationship.
He was banned from driving for the past 2 years of our 3 year relationship. This was because he was caught driving under the influence and failed to provide a blood specimen.
I know, he sounds absolutely terrible and what was I thinking. I guess I somehow saw good in him and thought he would change. We eventually split because he was messaging his exes and still using drugs etc, he said I was being unreasonable and I did act out myself at times as I just felt so anxious and depressed about it all.
I have maintained no contact and he has not tried to contact me either.
I have been told by friends that he is all over Tinder, still using drugs etc.
He is like a different person to the guy I tried to make myself think he was.
Admittedly I have struggled for the past few months, but I have stayed strong and have no desire to contact him.
Anyway, yesterday I received a Prosecution Notice from the police for him, basically he was caught driving some woman's car by himself, he was not insured and apparently had no valid licence at the time. So being charged with no insurance or licence. As far as I know he got his licence back last summer whilst he was living at his new address.
He never lived at my address so why would the letter come here? Has he purposely given my address?
Should I return the letter as "not at this address", or contact the police myself?
It has kind of stirred me up again a bit. I wont contact him about it. And I guess its proof that he's still a grade A jerk :/