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Panicking about first ever relationship, please help.

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Lawana · 30/01/2021 19:31

To cut a long story short, I had arranged a date the first weekend of lockdown 1, it never went ahead but we continued to message each other anyway.

We were both in a similar situation. All of our friends are settled down, most have kids and we were the only single ones, so I think we possibly relied too much on each other considering we didn't know each other.

When the restrictions lifted, we managed to go on a few dates, but then we both had to isolate and the new lockdown came in. We have been Facetiming and calling each other, as well as a few walks.

I like his company and feel comfortable with him. He is funny and interesting. I sometimes think I'd like to kiss him, but I also feel like I'd need some dutch courage to do it Blush

He suggested that he makes dinner for Valentine's Day today and I suddenly just panicked. I want to do the decent thing and I don't want to lead him on, but I don't know what I want. I've never done anything, even kissed anyone, and it seems worse because it's been so long and I feel I've misled him. I don't know if I'm attracted to him.

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AtlasPine · 30/01/2021 20:01

You have to take a risk really unless the stronger feeling is that he isn’t for you. What are you MOST scared of happening?

Lawana · 30/01/2021 20:12

I really don't know. I worry about everything.

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