A woman and I have been chatting online for several years but haven't had the chance to meet yet. We've helped each other through abusive marriages and divorce.
Neither place we live have any covid restrictions at all so that isn't an issue.
Last month we discuss dates to finally meet and I've booked a ticket to fly up for a week. She has graciously offered to allow me to stay at hers. She messaged the fun things she has planned for us but added in another one of her friends whom I haven't met or chatted with which I found a bit odd but thought well the more the merrier and didn't say anything.
Now she tells me about a children's birthday party during the week I am here for her SDD so I get to meet them too.
Am I being a tit for thinking the week I was coming would be mostly about me and her?
I've only one weekend there and I suspect the birthday party will be on that weekend.
Am I wrong to be a bit disappointed to think the visit would be adult girls get together?
Should I say anything? Cancel the visit? Go and make the best of it even if it really wasn't what I had in mind?