Again...ex

[Kajawe]

Story is to long to tell... so I will point it out:

1. Me and my partner been working together in a same company and that’s how we met.He was very close friend with my lady boss.She was following him literally everywhere (even cigarette break even she’s not a smoker)
2. We start seeing each other and fall in love quickly (when you know you know)
3. I’m closed person so I was still hesitated and told him I don’t think it will work and he told me he love me and stuff but I said “no” and same evening he slept with that lady boss and she told him she love him and she will leave husband for him
4. Time showed we have to be together because we just made for each other and we start real life together, happy and almost perfect. And THEN she admitted about sex with her so I decided to ignored because it was “before” we decided we want to be together....
5. He was working with her long time ( while I moved to different place) and being friends but not too close anymore and she get pregnant with her husband and starting normal life
6. She get offer to move to same company but bigger place and my partner promise he won’t go to the same place with her but when they gives him good offer he just made decision and move AGAIN with her

7.every fight is about her: taking her in a car, working to closely, taking lunches together, doing stuff for her like taking her to shop because she forgot about daughter special day in school etc

1. Finally we had BIG TALK. I said it’s enough.either he will stop EVERYTHING with her or I’m out, I’m just mad and sad and depressed all the time so me or friendship with her and he promised he will stop this time, he will cut her off because he love me
2. And now...lockdown.their place is closed from December. Few days ago I found out he called her while I was in work...then when I ask he lied in my eyes.one call...but no point call because she is not responsible for changing the ceilings lockdown !so I can get ONLY ASSUME it was half friendly half gossipy call but it was a call even if he promised not keeping contact with her!

ATM I just shut.I can’t stop thinking and I’m so disappointed and hurt.If he want to call her he could do it in front of me so I can be sure it’s nothing g private and just normal update and stuff(she is still the boss)...I don’t know what to do anymore.That lockdown will finish at some point and they will land in a same place everyday again.

Offff I know it’s long so I only hope someone will say their opinion after reading...
So?from an eye outside?how it it look?

Looks like time to dump him.

You're not perfect for each other.

He's got you in a triangle with his boss. He lies, you can't trust him - the relationship is fucked.

If she wasn't married he would be in a relationship with her, he's stringing you along, that's how it looks.
Dump him he's still into her.

It sounds like his affair with her has continued, to a greater or lesser degree, it isn't over and he hasn't cut ties. He got away with it before because you excused it, and he has continued to do so since then. I think a part of you has always known this, you need to finally start trusting your gut.

The funny thing is he is not trying... he will pick be up for a work and take me to home...
And then just silence between us...
Like I’m the one to blame. and I ever done anything wrong.Keeping myself out of trouble all the time.
Never cheat, never chat out of order, never even thing to cheat.
And again he is behaving like he want to swing it to my way, like I’m jealous and I’m overstepping.
Some times women needs flower, attention and dinner waiting...even if it’s not her style..every woman just need to know he is trying!
He is not even trying.