Vídeos on his phone

[a00031]

I find adult videos and all kind of twerking videos on husbands phone. He says he's a man but I feel like I don't go roaming the internet for videos of men because I don't feel like I have to. I feel like I've protected his ego and self esteem by making sure to not watch certain things. Now I've realized he's never done that for me. He's a great husband, makes me feel very loved and I know I'm beautiful. Just seems like when I mention a celebrity or have something on my phone he feels some type of way but God forbid I say anything about him having explicit videos on his phone. It's to the point where I don't care anymore about this subject but don't know if I should be numb about it either. Please dont be cruel I'm just looking for a place to vent

He says he's a man

Ah yes, that bullshit. I wouldn't be impressed.

I do have to ask, why are you searching through his phone?

@Aquamarine1029

He says he's a man

Ah yes, that bullshit. I wouldn't be impressed.

I do have to ask, why are you searching through his phone?

I almost never do but I saw him on YouTube and I saw him scrolling and in his suggestions I saw he had videos of women's butts in leggings and twerking. I then asked to see his phone

Just seems like when I mention a celebrity or have something on my phone he feels some type of way but God forbid I say anything about him having explicit videos on his phone.

Well that can fucking stop, can't it?

I would suggest that you follow a few fit celebs on instagram, or whatever your choice of medium is. And when he makes it clear he 'feels some type of way' you just look blank and say 'If it's fine for you to have X on your phone, it's fine for me to have this. Man, woman, no difference. Suck it up or lead by example, hypocrite!'

If you feel you can't say that - then you are in a controlling relationship.

He thinks women are objects. What's OK for him to do is not OK for you.

Not sure why that would make you "feel loved" tbh.

Makes me feel sick that women still put up with this.

As long as you comply with his vision of Woman and do not question him, he'll continue being a "great husband".

Are you going to continue modifying your own behaviour to keep him happy?

I would see it as a green light to making your own phone video collection of hot men OP.
Can’t exactly complain can he?

It's disrespectful to you, immature and creepy. That is not my definition of a great husband. Make sure you start a red hot collection of topless bodybuilders and drool over it often, right in his face. Let's see how long he can remain " great".

I wouldn't like this either OP.

@IJustWantSomeBees

I wouldn't like this either OP.

Update* he says he's a man, he's good to me and he's loyal. That I will fine an occasional behind on his phone from time to time on his internet. So the. I said you know what okay that fine your going to fins occasional man parts (trying to keep it appropriate on here) on my phone as well and walked out the room. He wasn't expecting that response and as much as he said "fine" I know it bothers him because he hasn't talked to me since and has stayed in the living room.

@GalaKC

It's disrespectful to you, immature and creepy. That is not my definition of a great husband. Make sure you start a red hot collection of topless bodybuilders and drool over it often, right in his face. Let's see how long he can remain " great".

Yeah going to give him a taste of his own medicine and I know he won't like that