Hi! I need help understanding what options are available to me/what I can do to keep my Mom away from me and my child. I went no contact about eight months ago, and she has shown up to my doorstep uninvited while my kid was home. She has called and left voicemails repeatedly, and proceeds to contact my husband who does not respond. She's threatened to sue for grandparent rights. She has been diagnosed Borderline Personality Disorder. The final straw was when she sent a barrage of messages to my husband about perceived mistakes I made in my early twenties, which included not only her warped perspective, but flat out lies. What should I do? I don't want to be bullied into talking to her, or having a relationship with her. She causes me nothing but distress, and abused me verbally, mentally, sometimes physically...since I was a kid. My siblings have constant falling outs with her, which I only know through ex-spouses because I don't have a relationship with my brothers either. Beyond the constant triangulation that would happen because of my mother, they have drug and alcohol abuse issues. I should be able to decide who is and who is not in my life.