I will try and keep this short. I need to leave my husband. The are a few things I need to sort first. We rent and have been here ten years. He has no bank account. ( was made bankrupt about a decade before we met, hasnt had one since, was married before me and assume he used his ex wife's bank accounts as he does mine) he doesn't work and hasn't done for 3 years. Was made redundant, looked for a long time for a job then gave up - I was working full time so he became sahp. I've tried everything to get him to get a job. Nothing works, I've started my own business 2 years ago wich is doing well, he won't even come work with me ( whole other thread) in the heat of a row he said if we broke up he wouldn't be leaving the house as it's his home and has nowhere to go. Wich is right. He has no family whatsoever. ( they've passed away) and has friends but not a proper friend who'd help him out. We have children. I have my parents I could go to but they have an elderly relate living with them and has done for 8 years and there's only 1 spare room, so, even thought they'd take us in without thinking, it'd be very over crowded. But how can I leave? And how can I get him to leave - with literally no where to go or no way of funding himself. I'm trying to think of all the practical things but don't know how to deal with it as feel there's no way out.