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So lonely

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Partygirl2021 · 23/01/2021 12:37

I’m a single mum to a one year old, in the midst of divorce. I hate my ex and he was horrible to me for a couple of years, we had no sex life (him rejecting me) and anytime he was in the house he sat on his computer and only came downstairs when his meals were ready. I accept that I should have kicked him out sooner but hey, I only tried for the sake of our baby (“my baby” as he often told me when I asked for help). Don’t get me wrong I am a different person without him around, I would rather be single and unhappy than with him. My daughter is my whole world and I love her so much. I just wish I knew what it was like to have a happy relationship, wake up with someone, watch tv, laugh with. I never had that with my ex looking back. I know I won’t meet someone because I am a single parent to a baby and COVID does not help matters. I just feel so alone these days, even though I have a good circle of friends. I guess I just realise now I was living such a lonely life with my ex all three years. Feel so sad and unhappy

OP posts:
Partygirl2021 · 23/01/2021 12:39

I meant he said no I’m not doing that she’s your baby. When I called him out on that he said it was a joke. I don’t Find it funny even a year down the line. The baby was wanted by us both, a joint decision at the time when things were not so bad

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Biscuitsanddoombar · 23/01/2021 16:07

Hugs OP (((((()))) didn’t want to read & run

Lots of women with children find new relationships & happiness.

You’ve got lots of time for that. At the moment you’re going through a horrible divorce & recovering from your marriage. Give yourself time to heal xx you will be happy again x

catsareme14 · 23/01/2021 20:13

I'm in my 60's been married twice & one longish relationship. Still don't have a clue what a normal relationship looks like . Too late now & im sad about that . You have so much time ahead of you to find love and happiness.

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