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Flirty Friends going OTT in front of DH.

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SARAHJFR · 29/10/2007 14:32

Hi everyone, this is my first post on here. If I'm honest I am feeling a bit fed up and confused to a situation that occured over the weekend. I am looking for some advice as I don't know if I am being a bit silly and should snap out of it.
Basically I had some girlfriends around for a party over the weekend. Everyone was having a great time including dh. Everyone was enjoying a drink and a couple of my friends started to go a bit ott such as flirting and immatating lapdancing/pole dancing in front of my dh. Everyone was laughing and my dh seemed to be enjoying himself. At the time I felt a bit uncomfortable with some of the antics and feel stupid now that I didn't say or do anything, I just kept telling myself it was just a bit of fun. However a lot of these antics were recorded on a camcorder and when I watched the footage the next day I felt hurt and upset, am I being silly? My dh ( who had also had a lot to drink that night), felt very ashamed and remorseful having seen what happened and says that he is sorry and understands why I feel the way I do. I have said to him that we need to draw a line underneath it and carry on as usual but why do I feel so let down? Sorry this is so long.

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pouchofdouglas · 29/10/2007 14:33

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CadaverousCorpulentCarmenere · 29/10/2007 14:35

Wellcome to mn. Tbh it sounds like you have this well under control. You have spoken to your dh, he understands why you are upset and he is sorry. I would try to forget about it.

AbbyMumsnet · 29/10/2007 15:00

Hi Sarah,

Just to let you know that you've posted in "SIte Stuff" the section of our talk board that's for discussing things to do with the actual site. If it's ok with you, I'll move your post to the relationships section - but wanted to let you know first. (And thought it prudent not to email you directly, given the nature of your post!) You'll soon get the hang of where to post what stuff - but if you click on topic list at the top left of this page you'll see a long list of the different areas of talk.

SARAHJFR · 29/10/2007 15:10

ok thanks.

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FunkyGlassSlipupandyouredead · 29/10/2007 15:19

well done for talking to your DH about it so quickly. Sounds like he feels the same as you do.

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