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Trust

29 replies

NeedRomance11 · 21/01/2021 21:31

Anyone believe u can earn trust back or is it gone when its broke ?

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Monty27 · 23/01/2021 03:27

No not ever
Nor could I forgive

PurrBox · 23/01/2021 07:01

Kintsugi16- thank you so much for your kind words! It is surprising to me how comforting your thoughts and flowers are.

In my experience, cheating, and the dishonesty it involves, are a symptom of an inability to:
-take responsibility for one's own flaws
-face problems head-on and ask for help
-respect other people's right to know the truth, however painful or inconvenient
-experience and learn from sadness and loss, rather than hiding and pretending it doesn't exist.

I think that, given a huge change of life, and a deep and thoughtful process of growing up, a person can become more emotionally mature and balanced, and then might not cheat again..

(I wrote this on another thread, but just felt like repeating it as I think it is relevant here.)

Kintsugi16 · 23/01/2021 22:05

Absolutely relevant here.

I feel we share similar experiences. It’s comforting to know that others understand but this is a path we walk alone x

PurrBox · 23/01/2021 22:22

It is comforting- thanks for writing x

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