What do I do about this?

[Tilpop]

I've messaged before about my DH....
We have a 6 month old boy and he has been up a lot during the night.

Last night I was up with him and then when I woke up this morning DH was still asleep in bed. I asked him if he was going to work and he said he was tired (he's flexible at work).

At about 12.30 he had been in his PJs all morning but announced he needed to get showered and go out.

I asked where and he said (the site he is working) which is 1hr and 20 mins from
Us.

Anyway he left at 1.15 and got back at 4.30.

In the mean time I was on the phone to my friend and she said he had just passed her works which is totally the opposite end of town to where he would come off the motorway. (She was pulling out and he passed her)

When he got in I asked if he managed to get his work done and he said "yeah" then I asked how was the motorway and he said "same as always why would you ask"

I don't know what to think 😒

Boots.. Ask for ANI

Don't say anything just yet. See if you can have his car tracked or friend to follow him. From previous threads sounds like you need to get your ducks in a row. It's so hard with a baby and poor sleep. It does start to get better from 13 months onwards so if it's safe, stay put until you have bit better sleep. Get him to pay for childcare and get a job if possible. Then leave x

You know he's lying, he isn't kind to you. When he's next out pack and leave and go to your Mum's.

@Zanina

Don't say anything just yet. See if you can have his car tracked or friend to follow him. From previous threads sounds like you need to get your ducks in a row. It's so hard with a baby and poor sleep. It does start to get better from 13 months onwards so if it's safe, stay put until you have bit better sleep. Get him to pay for childcare and get a job if possible. Then leave x

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