Lingerie...

[rattanraiser]

Is it strange that my boyfriend has no interest in it. Says he prefers the naked body. I've never met a man who doesn't enjoy it . Is that odd or am
I just totally out
Of the loop ... out of a 20 year relationship two years ago . First boyfriend since separation .

DP isn't fussed at all and will tell me I look hot if I wear a nice set but but ultimately would rather me be naked.

We've been out shopping together when I've bought a nice (not necessarily overtly sexy) couple of underwear sets for myself and when we've got to the till he's paid for them as a gift, but I don't think he'd ever go buy me any of his own accord.

@TCTeddy

He looks, appreciates for 5 seconds, then it's off.

This ⬆️

I've never had a man pay much attention to it, before they just want to remove it and get to the good stuff underneath. And I've been with a lot of men..

Sure, they'll notice it and think it's nice but it would be odd for them to prefer it to the real life woman under it! I think it's a good sign if a man prefers your boobs and bits in their natural glory rather than only when they're accentuated with flattering angling.

Same, in fact DP actively dislikes lingerie as it gets in the way of being naked.

A previous DP was the opposite, loved the dressing up and the slow removal etc. Another never really wanted nakedness at all, at least some of it always stayed on. Each to their own, I am happy any way!

Current DP likes me wearing something that he can remove, but is quite happy if I'm naked.

The first time we slept together I got into bed still wearing the skimpy dress I'd worn out to dinner, plus high heels & fancy knickers - he loved it

I'd love to be appreciated either dressed up or not! :'(

DH isn't remotely interested. Neither am I to be fair - if I bought something overtly sexy he'd probably think I'd gone mad. 😂 Don't get me wrong, I like nice underwear but not the sexy stuff. Can't imagine it to be comfortable!

Not strange in the least. My XH didn't like lingerie at all. He just liked naked women! My boyfriend likes it but is just as excited if I'm wearing an old sports bra and leggings. Once again, it's the naked woman he likes most.

My DH doesnt care about it at all, he wouldn't notice what I was wearing.

My boyfriend doesn't care either, it's great!

My DH doesn’t care; it all comes off too quickly for him to really notice

My ex isnt remotely interested. But he was very prudish in general.

My partner prefers my naked body. Fine by me. I can save money and keep wearing my old maternity pants.

Not strange at all

My DH doesn't. I was also surprised, but who am I to tell him what he likes! He also prefers neked!

Not strange at all... everyone is different

This is has been very reassuring
Thanks !

Nah not strange. My husband appreciates nice lingerie but given a choice prefers the naked body.

I like nice stylish lingerie. I probably spend too much on it. It’s important to me because it helps make me feel good when l get dressed at the start to each day.

And l like to look as nice as l can when getting dressed and undressed. Same applies to outerwear too.

But for a bedroom romp it’s naked; it all comes off and l’ve never had any complaints from anyone.

Not unusual, have known men who have no interest.

It is normally off in no time so we hardly notice!

My primary partner loves lingerie so the money I've saved on fuel during lockdown has been blown on gorgeous but ridiculously expensive Honey Birdette sets.

My other partner is decidedly less interested and will usually just take it all off so he can get to my naked body.

My dh has no interest in it at all. He couldn’t care less whatever I wear as he says it all ends up off anyway!