ex H has been on the phone. Last week he called to say dr prescribed anti depressants and suggested he see a psycologist not a councillor as he was previously seeing and could he have DD for a day when I was at work. I said i wasn't sure if it was appropriate for him to have her if he was on the pills to which he agreed and said he wasnt going to tkae them. Just phoned me in tears saying his head is messed up by the pills and yesterday he smashed up half his flat so cant see DD for a while as he gets mood swings. Said he was really upset that he hurt me and is sad that he lost me and DD (but to be honest i am happier now) Its all getting a bit scary, he had the habit about a mont hago of 'dropping in' to see me at owrk (in the travel agency) which I managed to stop as i said it wasnt appropriate and i'd get into trouble. Feeling a bit 'suffocated' now by it. He then asked if my phone would be on tonight so he can call if he needs to as he is so messed up and apparently i'm the only one who will listen to him and will tell him what he needs to do. I said he should really be able to do this himself now.
Emailed my solicitor about it as im not really sure what to do.