Was seeing someone on and off last year anyway after much toing and froing, it came to an end and I did no contact since 2 November 2020.
He did send texts and Whatsapps that I ignored - they were usually every few weeks, and were pleasant, saying that he missed me etc. I did not respond to any of his messages.
I did not block him as I have not blocked anyone and I suppose I see it as a fairy aggressive act. However I accidentally opened one of his Whatsapp messages yesterday, and he saw that I opened it and sent another greetings and I did block him.
So then he texted me and said “thanks me for blocking me and wished me well and he would not bother me again’
I know I am giving this too much head space but this has really annoyed me, like i am doing him a favour... like he could not control himself. He could have blocked me.
I suppose deep down for some weird reason that I can not work out, I wanted him to miss me. I did fall for him but he was a fairly toxic jealous person and hurt me. So yes I am aware that maybe its about control on my part . Anyone explain the psychology behind his thanks?