Wondering it anyone has any advice, I feel like I've got nowhere else to go for advice and even though nobody can fix the situation I'm desperately searching for a way out.
I've been with my partner for around six years now, it's been far from smooth sailing and we've had no end of problems. I love him but I can't keep taking the heart ache, I've had enough of and Litrally can't take anymore. He's not abusive but he ignores me a lot to gain control of a situation and it leaves me feeling like I'm going crazy. Going to someone you love to try and talk to them about how they've done something to upset you and they completely brick wall you and blank you, like completely he won't say a word. It sounds small but it's mental torture.
I had a really really traumatic childhood and I'm still paying off for that, I'm riddled with Chronic anxiety and many other things and I don't want my life to carry on being negative, surely I shouldn't have to spend my whole life upset and hurt?
I want out, I know I can do it for me and my girls and I can build a beautiful life for us. But that's the problem I've got I'm completely trapped.
He had to leave his job last year so we're currently getting uc, it's a joint claim the money is split and the amount I'm getting it would take an extremely long time to save enough to be able to move out with the girls, the council won't place me on a higher enough band to have a chance of getting anywhere so what do I do? I've got no friends or family to help me either.
Has anyone been in a similar situation and managed to get out?