Would you be annoyed

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If your husband paid to subscribe to sites like only fans, following celebrities rather than 'real' women.

Is it more personal than 'just porn'.

Really not sure what to think about it.

I would hate it, celebrities or not, he is paying to get his rocks off by other people. Not acceptable in my eyes.

I'm not entirely sure what only fans is to be honest. I follow celebrities on instagram but it doesn't mean I want to sleep with them (or even if I did, I know there would be fat chance of it happening)!

It obviously does bother you though so maybe you need to have a chat with him and explain?

It's certainly a more ethical choice - he's paying a fair price for original content, direct to creators who are in control of what they do and where their content is available, unlike a lot of mainstream porn.

Ergghhh pathetic what a slime ball . If my partner done this he would be out the door . How disrespectful

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I'm not entirely sure what only fans is to be honest. I follow celebrities on instagram but it doesn't mean I want to sleep with them (or even if I did, I know there would be fat chance of it happening)!

It obviously does bother you though so maybe you need to have a chat with him and explain?

Only fans is a subscription service. You pay a monthly fee to see the persons 'content'. Which is usually porn or nudes etc.

I have seen these women on social media, there is plenty tits and arse on there to see, it just seems more personal, as though he's gone out of his way to see more if that makes sense.
I'm not usually too bothered about him watching porn, which I guess makes me a hypocrite. I don't know, I think it's my own self confidence that has took a battering more than anything else.

I wouldn't be impressed if my DP subscribed to only fans OP, the content is mostly underwear/porn and the fact that he would be paying for it makes it even more seedy in my eyes.

If you’re ok with porn them is this not the same thing as paying to watch films that your favourite porn star is in? You know who it is and you fancy them, and you know you’re going to have a self-made happy ending so I can understand why someone would want that. As opposed to random porn with random women in. Which is presumably more what you thought he was watching?

I’m not a fan of porn myself so I would not be up for any porn at all.

I’m too jealous to have a bf watch someone else and pretend in his head that he is shagging her. Instead of me. In case he fancies her more than me and then is just using me as he can’t get her as she’s a millionaire porn star and he’s a wee nobody she’d not be caught dead with!

I’d be even worse with someone following a particular individual as that would defo feel to me like he’s into her not me. I’m just the fall back woman.

Could it be the potential emotional issues like mine that you are concerned about re his feelings for her not you?

I may have jealousy issues or be insecure, who knows. But I wouldn’t like it.